I know this is an odd title. I really don't believe in being the police but fall is here and we are back to school and high school kids are partying. I have seen teenagers in therapy for years. I am always astounded when teens tell me about going to parties, coming home, sometimes even driving, and being able to pull the wool over parents' eyes about the nights drinking. They have a cunning plan for being able to come in, even talk to parents and not get busted. They brag about being able to get away with this.
We talk about parenting with intention and attention. Parents who adhere to this do not fall victim to this plan. Be aware of what your kids are doing and be savvy, know where they really are. Have a conversation with them in the light about the evening. Ask direct questions before they go out and when they return. Don't assume your child would not drink.
Proactive parents have a better result that those that are less aware. This is not assurance that doing this will keep your teen from drinking but if you know it is happening then you can take the appropriate action.
Good luck and be watchful. Sherri
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